@becsbuddy We are grateful for having been able to help out. The sad thing is that we had a very negative reaction from my step-daughter, as we wished everyone a good holiday season, and let them know we had decided to help out locally. On the other hand, my step-son's ex-wife and her kids all praised us for helping a family who needed it. Such a wide spectrum of responses.
Ginger

@becsbuddy, You are such a motivator for the rest of us I am sorry you were feeling down until you found a way to help. I've often wondered who benefits more, the recipient of a kindness or the person who shared the gift. A double win, right?

Both you and @gingerw are so appreciated for the understanding, encouragement and many kindnesses you share by listening and responding to our groups. Thank you both!

Hi Becky - Like you, we have been making great use of the "sell nothing, buy nothing" page. We also addition provided Christmas for a family near us, our kids were completely on board the idea. In addition, our daughter used it to pass on some of her kids' like-new but unused toys to new home.

I have also used it to find help - When I needed garden assistance, I instituted socially distant garden digs - if people dug up my excess plants, they kept half and I donated half.

Also, as I have been clearing out my home, we have posted MANY free items for safe pickup. We have passed on baby items, household items, a sewing machine & fabric to a mask/quilt making neighbor, furniture, yard items... Kind of like a perennial garage sale without having to clean, tag and mind the store.

Sue