Sorry for your loss Colleen. I’m sure Chemo works for some people but like you the side effects weren’t worth it to me. I was prescribed oxycodone once but didn’t like the side effects so just use Tylenol. Are you very short of breath? I’m having a heck of a time breathing with even moderate exercise, Dr says it’s because I also have COPD but I wasn’t that short of breath prior to the lung cancer.