@healthytoday Your phrase, "Different, but with respect." is a good thought. As you said, she needs to see what is best for herself. It may come sooner or it may come later, but that is her decision to make. As you already know, no one can make that decision for her.

Wishing you well as you work through these feelings. I do appreciate the help you are giving your daughter. While I didn't live with my parents after my divorce, they did give me a lot of support during a time when I certainly need it and I appreciated it.