Hi @tunared, welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. You'll notice that I moved your message to this existing discussion called "MCI: Trying to find our best path and what to do next." I did this so you can connect with other members like @debbraw @virginianaeve @jodeej @joancampy @sueinmn and more who have been where you are now. Click VIEW & REPLY to scroll through the past messages.

Like you, @ann59 is also trying to understand and prepare for what to expect in the future when your spouse has been diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment (MCI). A timeframe is literally impossible to offer. Every person progresses at their own rate. I know that is frustrating. The unknown is so scary. But you're not alone and there are ways you can prepare. Connecting with people here is a good first step to help with coping.

Tunared/Dan, is your wife aware of her diagnosis? Are you able to talk about it openly?