They don't use bed mats "because they are tripping hazards...." They would not allow a rolled up blanket or bath towel because "those aren't firm enough". (It seems like they keep telling me what WON'T work rather than telling me what WILL work!

Someone suggested to me that I should tell the director "Judy enjoys having a pillow next to her side when she sleeps. I'd like to bring a body pillow for her to have next to her. Can we do that?" The idea was, if she enjoys it, it must not be a restraint against her will. And the director agreed! It's been in place for about a week and so far, no more falls!

They would also allow a "pool noodle" under the bottom sheet. It's about a 4" round hard foam about 4' long.

In the meantime, my daughter and I have found a better place for Judy and they will have an opening later this month. And we have other temporary alternatives if we need to move her sooner. Right now we think she is safe and we're keeping our fingers crossed.