@sunnyflower Oh your family sees it Sunny, how could they not? From the sounds of it, your family loves you deeply and you are their shining light, a bright spot, and they may be in denial of reality to protect themselves from your truth. Not everyone is wired for compassion and empathy. Maybe it's time you speak up and ask for more support, in a nice way. My husband once said, if you need my help, just ask for it. Sometimes we have to stop wishing they just knew what to do and say, and just ask or share our innermost feelings and concerns. There should be no shame in our game if we are kind, courteous and sincere. All the best to you kind lady.

Rachel