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I 'm the same as Linda. It frustates my husband that I'm my cheerful self when talking to or visiting with everyone. I try to keep the focus on them. I don't want to be a downer or be perceived as complaining, which I am not. I' ve never felt I was a victim nor have I ever questioned God. You know that I trust Him in my circumstances completely.
You know that He is ever-present in my life and that I experience His comfort and His peace through Christ that surpasses all human understanding. Philippians 4:7.
This is what gets me through the unrelenting, all-consuming pain. I am deeply humbled, grateful and immeasurably blessed and know this life is but the blink of an eye in light of all eternity. So I have hope and assurance of what is to come.
"Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1
Warmest regards and many prayers, Sunnyflower. 😊🙏
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@sunnyflower, @jesfactsmon My husband's very words, "They have no idea...you seem normal to everyone else and they have no idea what really goes on." In other words, what he has to witness, deal with, endure is deceiving to others. The expression goes....you hurt the ones you love. Well, not intentionally of course but, the ones who are closest to you and live with you, share most in your misery, pain and commiseration. This never seemed quite right in my mind because they generally love you the most yet they get the shortest end of the stick. I suppose that is where vows come in. A sad situation overall and not one that any of us would ever choose. I try very hard to remember that my husband feels the most of my pain, he wants to fix me but cant, and that leaves him feeling frustrated, angry and burned out also. I do try to keep his feelings in perspective and show him love and affection as best I can. He deserves more than anyone else in my life.
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@sunnyflower Sunny, you know I love God also or at least I try to in my puny human way. But when you say "I' ve never felt I was a victim nor have I ever questioned God." I can't say that. I admire you for your staunchness of Faith. Remarkable! Hank