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Neuropathy in feet and limited toe movement?

Neuropathy | Last Active: May 27 3:51pm | Replies (151)

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@jesfactsmon Hi Hank, Your post about your mother in law made my toes curl, and that is hard for me, as usually, they can be quite immovable! Your mom in law was just like my mom. My mom made us miserable with her cleaning rituals. She would vacuum the ceiling sometimes! She would have us take everything out of our drawers at least once a month, wash the drawer, and put everything back. Same for closet floors. She walked around with rags stuffed in her shirt for cleaning. She had no friends, no capacity to relax, at all. She used to dust hotel rooms if we went on vacation. She would only do mom/daughter "play" type things if there was a goal; if I needed a dress, we would go shopping. Never just go out to do a fun "girl thing." She is a sore spot in my soul. I loved her, but she made me miserable quite often. OCD is serious business! I was blessed with a kind hearted, normal dad. Without him, God knows what I would be today. By the way, Hank, pain is better today. Go figure!!!! Love to you, Lori

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My mother was OCD. She also suffered from anxiety. Our house was spotless at all times. She cleaned seven days a week. She had certain days for washing, ironing. She was a wonderful cook. She also baked pies, homemade all the way. She picked apples, peeled and sliced them, made delicious apple pies. Oh, yes, I'd like to have one right now! I turned into my mother. I kept our house immaculate at all times. I made homemade food. We had three meals a day. I changed five beds every Friday. I sometimes held a job and still kept this up. When my son was about eight years old, he said: "CLEAN, CLEAN, CLEAN, THAT'S ALL YOU DO! God bless him. I love him dearly. I don't know what prompted it .I had four children plus a stillborn boy. My husband's twin brother and son moved in and stayed for three years. I did their clothes and fed them at the same time. That made my four kids, my husband, his brother and child and me. That's eight people for every meal. I cooked large meals, did everyone's laundry and ironed everyone's clothes. Yes, I did it all and I still cleaned like crazy. I never went anywhere on weekends. I cleaned. My husband and his brother went golfing every weekend. I did not love my life, that's for sure. Yes, now I need back surgery for spinal stenosis, have pain even going to my feet. I attribute it to all the lifting of the furniture I did each time I cleaned. Yes, I moved everything!