@jesfactsmon , I now know 2 very brave men, Hank and Jim. Two men who have weathered the storm of despair and told their stories. My hat is off to Hank (and Jim) Thank You for sharing your story. Hank ,you truly serve as an inspiration to all of us. You are fulfilling your God given mission in bringing light to those in need. We bring into our lives the people who will help us to change, to grow to prosper. Sometimes those people are our fathers who did their best but caused us grief. They were there to test us, to eventually move beyond that and understand what it truly means to be a loving and caring father. Hank you have become a truly loving and caring man. A man who can express himself so eloquently. Hank, you have evolved. I'd say you are self-actualizing. You are expressing your true self. Thank You, David