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Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

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Thank you for starting this interactive conversation.
I am single and have been urged by a family member to make a move near one of my two children who are both on the East coast and I live in the Midwest. I have been downsizing my household contents during this past year. I know that my friends won’t be here forever, however some of my apprehension is that I would have to start all over again building new friendships, never easy.
I love my large yard however it will be too much for me in about five years or so. Also, my home is split level and I have no problem navigating it now, and I try to stay in the here and now but, at the same time, there is a realism that this may not always be the case. Reading others thoughts is helpful, thanks.

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@jude07 It is a tough decision When my husband died I kept my house as long as I could we had his families old house so 10 rooms we used all 10 but after he died and I got tired of cutting 3acres it was all to much so I threw out 4 loads of garbage in dumbstet from garbage man tagged for sale ,give always,donation and sale. Moved into a mobile home this was in Pa. Now I'm in CA where my son and his family are Yes I was apprehensive but surprised how easy it was to make friends hardest was finding bank@medical so it was a good move for me since Im78 now with physical problems .It's good to be near family now. Hope this helped