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@zep, You make me smile! Wellll, good dirt leads to good results, yes? Autumn and May Night Salvias are 2 of my mainstay perennials as well as yarrow, Shasta daisies…oh, don’t get me started..lol
My all time favorite though is a soft curving spread of New England Asters which die back in winter but make the most striking light purple burst of color in the fall. They are a stunning backdrop for fall mums.
So,I’m not wanting to play one upmanship of course because this is a place of sharing not competition, right? But, if you think pollinating zucchini flowers with Q-tips is “kinky”, what would you say to starting your own celery and carrots by cutting off the ends of several fresh-from-the-grocery stalks, placing them in a shallow dish of water and watching the tops sprout???? Beyond help? Needs to get a life? Must be realllly hungry? VBG stands for very big grin but I like “guffaw” even better!
Thanks @lilypaws, Laughing because “hoot” is one of the first words little Texans are taught. Think it is a pre-requisite for kindergarten here. Hugs
@starchy, Thank you so much for your thoughtful, very encouraging downsizing post. Each of the reasons you used in making your decisions are the priorities for me as well.
I’ve been giving considerable thought to making a move for a couple of years. While my original plan was to move into an independent sr. living establishment which also provided “graduated care” as needed, the covid virus has me rethinking that. The virus has had devastating effects on nursing homes and while different from what I’d been thinking of moving to, that has made me be so thankful that I am still in my own “stand alone” home.
One of the appeals for me was the “built-in” social opportunities in a senior facility. What has it been like for you socially in moving from the suburbs to the city?
Like you, I am still young enough and healthy enough to make my own decisions and want to spare my out-of-state family the time,effort and hardship of having to deal with all connected with a move later.
Already disposing of and donating things in this pre-planning stage has also made me very aware of making new purchases.
What you wrote needs to be read and considered by every consumerism driven adult.
“One of the effects of downsizing has been to make me consider very carefully before buying anything at all because every single thing that we buy will have to be disposed of eventually and much of it will end up being garbage. The planet can't cope with much more garbage.” Wow! I love this! Can’t express adequately how encouraging it is to hear from someone who has made the move that you have no regrets about your decision. Thank you.
@starchy Welcome to Mayo Connect! I certainly appreciate your words this morning, and the message you so eloquently give serves to underscore my endeavors. There are very relevant points made. You cheer me on, whether you know it or not. What are the two things that you miss the most from your last living situation?
How did you find Mayo Connect, may I ask?
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