Oh you’ll love the Mayo approach to this!! You’ll be immersed in that family of your team of doctors, NPs, coordinators, etc. It’s an amazing and challenging experience but truly well worth the effort. It is always a concern for your family and friends. But at the time of transplant your main focus will have to be on yourself. That was a tough mind shift for me! LOL. I’m generally the care giver in my family; reversing roles was weird, and being the center of so much attention! May I ask your age?