Ok, Brad, now I’m getting a little better picture of you and your wife’s pre-transplant life and maybe in a position to give more appropriate answers to help out. First, It’s great you’re in contact with her physiologist and the flowers were a wonderful gesture. I’m also relieved that you are getting feedback and responses from her team so that you’re being informed as to what’s going on in her recovery.
From my perspective as a transplant patient, you’re doing everything right for your wife. What is her name, by the way? She sounds like a person who loves to be in charge of her life, energetic and enjoys physical activity. I can tell you right now at this phase in her recovery, it will take months for that energy to return. At this point, her hemoglobin count is low so any activity, even as little as walking from the sofa to the kitchen can deplete her energy in a hurry. So that is a big frustration to her I’m sure. Within another month, she’ll be amazed at the progress she’ll make!
The most important thing is rest. “Listen to your body” was the most difficult concept for me over the past year and even now! My nurses drilled that into me every day. It is a mantra on my shoulder all the time. Rest, is imperative. Her body has been through a traumatic shock and it will take time recover. She had to deal with the treatments for AML, the rough chemo for the transplant and now the transplant itself, along with all the medications running through her body. You mentioned the shaking from the Prograf. Yes, that is absolutely possible. It is often related to the amount in her blood stream at any one time. It is carefully monitored with her blood tests and because it’s early in her transplant the doses will be tweaked accordingly. Even other medications can cause it to stay in her blood stream longer so it takes a lot of adjusting to get the dose steady.
But in the meantime she may have those trembles. Believe me, I know! It’s disconcerting at first. But it will go away when she no longer needs it. I’m an artist and I can tell when my level is higher. I used to hate it but now I actually enjoy the wanky lines in my works. Lemons out of lemonade. ☺️
To pass the time away my first couple of months, I listened to a lot of audio books, though honestly it took repeated attempts as I’d nod off every single time! I tried to do crossword puzzles, spent time just doodling on paper and later used my little travel watercolor set. That was a great diversion. The most disturbing thing I did was to watch TV. LOL. HGTV...never watched it before but became hooked. Glad that passed. 😉
I set daily goals of how far I wanted to walk...and some days that meant as little as 1, 2 or 3 circuits around the rooms were I was staying. And, there were days where I lived 5 minutes at a time...if I could just get through 5 more, i can make the next 5. So your wife will run the gamut over the next few months but with you providing a steady support network you’ll both get through it.

One year ago today I was on day 13 post transplant. There was nothing anyone could tell say to me which would have me believing I’d be feeling as good as I do today! My life is pretty much back to normal and I feel as though nothing ever happened! Before AML knocked me off my feet in 3 weeks time last February, I’d been a healthy, 65 year old, walking at least 10 miles a day, exercised and was unstoppable. I’m now back to at least 6 miles daily though the pesky, “Listen to your body” has me taking afternoon catnaps which I never did before. So there will be adjustments ahead and the occasionally GVHD issues which pop up. They get handled and then life resumes. Your wife will just have to ride this out but there Is life after a BMT and it’s amazing!! She’ll come out stronger, more confident and amazed at what she has accomplished!