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Caring for my husband with late-stage lung cancer

Lung Cancer | Last Active: Apr 16, 2020 | Replies (56)

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@turtle115

Thanks for the support from everyone. Andrew passed away this evening.....peacefully.... we had a couple bad days....but glad to know there is no more pain and suffering. So thankful for the 56 years we did have. May he soul Rest In Peace.

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@turtle115 Im so sorry to hear this but he is at peace now . You had a long marriage with lots of memories rely on the good ones . At first this memory will be all consuming but you will get through it with our Lord,s help if you believe . This is what we are promised no more pain and suffering . We are here for you when you want to talk be safe and be kind now to yourself.

@turtle115- I thought about you all day yesterday. My most heartfelt condolences on the loss of Andrew. What wonderful memories after 56 years you must have. I hope that as time goes on that you will remember them and take comfort in them. Please take care of yourself now and I hope that you will stay in touch.

Hello @turtle115

Please accept my condolences on the passing of Andrew. He was undoubtedly a very fine, loving man. I know you are glad to know that his pain and suffering are over but I'm also sure that your grief is very real.

You will fondly remember the 56 years you had together with a mixture of happiness and sadness. The mixture of feelings is normal.

In my area, funerals are being limited to only close family members, and often a memorial service is planned for after the social distancing restrictions are passed. I'm sure this must be true for you as well.

When you feel comfortable doing so, please feel free to tell us something about Andrew and share with us how you met, what he was like, his strengths and weaknesses. I and our other members, would enjoy getting to know him.

Will you be able to have your children with you now or are they restricted from coming to see you at this time?

@turtle115 Sending you a gentle hug [virtually] in this period of immense emotion. Each hour that passes may bring a new challenge to get through. But you will, I have no doubt. And there is no doubt, when reading your words, of the love you and Andrew shared. Relief from pain and suffering is what we strive for when faced with the situation you experienced. We're here for you even now. Share an amusing moment from your lives together with us, and smile as we will when we read the words.
Ginger

I am so very sorry to read this news, @turtle115 I am sure this is going to be a very challenging time -- please stay in touch and let us know if those of us who have lost a spouse can answer any questions or offer support.

Condolences, thoughts, and hugs to you and your family. You will always be a part of this family ❤️

@turtle115- Good morning. I'm wondering how you and your family are doing since Andrew's passing? Are you resting and eating well?