@mutwo I am so glad you’re working on staying positive and being busy. That’s the best medicine! As for the tapes, tell the judge that you have them and would be willing to share, but don’t just send them. If the judge wants to listen to then, he’ll ask.
Now, if you don’t mind, I’m going all the way back to the beginning—you so lovingly talk about you husband, but what put him in the hospital in the first place? You said something about an accident. Do you mind my asking?