Hi Gwen, I think that young man you were dating was not worth your time. Even without your health issue, he wouldn't have been a good husband. He sounds narcissistic. So don't let that memory haunt you. I think you "dodged a bullet" when he left although it must have been heart breaking when it happened.

I am guessing you are in your 60's now and probably your life is slowing down anyway. I don't know why any of your casual acquaintances need know of your heart issue. If an activity is suggested that you don't think is wise for you, just say "I don't think I am up for that". You don't need to provide any more information than that. I freely explain "I have heart disease" but I don't give details except to my close friends.

I wish you good luck, a quiet and enjoyable life and someone who loves you despite your heart issue. Really, that young man was an idiot and you were better off without him.

Donna