Hi, @flind Welcome to Connect. I see you have been here for a few weeks but this is the first time I have come across you.
I discovered when I went to the doctor for urinary incontinence that I have a rectocele too. I do have a problem sometimes with fecal incontinence but I don’t think the rectocele is actually causing that or other problems. The urogynecologist told me there is a surgery for rectoceles but she didn’t seem to recommend it. She did recommend a doctor at a different hospital that has been successful at correcting fecal incontinence but I have not pursued that. Is the rectocele causing any fecal incontinence? I was having a lot of diarrhea so it was a problem but when I finally figured out that I have become lactose intolerant and stopped eating goods containing lactose that problem went away for the most part. If there is fecal incontinence involved an extension of the regular kegels can help with that. You squeeze those muscled along with the usual muscles.
What kind of doctor are you seeing, and what does ”R/O” mean?