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That sounds good, and I do it for larger spills, but if I don't "do" the whole job, I just rearrange the stuff I should be tossing. Hence the need now for a full cleanup. Rainy today, so after I make some fun masks for my grandson, maybe I'll get to it. Has to be easier than the major freezer cleanout & defrost a couple weeks ago - it took 11 hours with hot water pans & a hair dryer to melt all the accumulated frost! (Door got left ajar)
Yesterday was my total day off - only a little stretching & basic therapy, then I read & read.

Here are the "5 things for 5 senses" it came down from my daughter's therapist when she was struggling. The point is to be "in the present" - what you are experiencing at the moment. Needless to say, try to concentrate on positive imagery.
What I see
What I hear
What I feel (like wind, sunlight, etc OR what I feel emotionally in this moment)
What I smell
What I taste (hardest - I often save it for mealtime)

Here is another exercise that I call "Own it and Let it Go." I use it in anxious/stressful situations.
When confronted with an unpleasant feeling, smell, sight:

I feel [angry that person is not wearing a mask in the store.] I need to remember [he may have a health condition, and that I cannot control anyone else's behavior.] I will [keep my distance, be extra polite to the staff who have to deal with him & get out of here as quickly as I can.] (Deep breath & let it go. Mentally picture your favorite thing)

I feel [anxious] waiting for my test results. I will get my answer [in two days] and then deal with it. Until then I will concentrate on [writing a memoir for my grandson.] (Deep breath...)

I feel [annoyed when I see my neighbor's messy yard.] My neighbor [either doesn't care about yards or has other issues more important to tend.] I will concentrate on [enjoying my own yard] or thinking about [how friendly she is when she sees me.]

I feel [irritated that my daughter hasn't called.] I can [call/text her to be sure she is okay] then find something productive to do. I understand [she is busy helping her sister & working.] I will concentrate on [what a terrific Auntie she is.]

You get the idea. I hope this helps too. Have a great day.
Sue

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@sueinmn Im back. Took some days off or rather, they took me. Everyone should take some time off! It’s good for the brain. I’m finally back to walking, short distances, though. Most os my walking time is spent waiting for my little friend, Poppy. He has to check everything out including every blade of grass. A friend is bring dinner over tonight so we can mask and social distance and eat! Should be good