@luftmensh1 There are several surgical options that treat a prolapsed bladder. You are looking for information and to connect with women that have had these types of surgeries. It important for you to choose the best and safest option. Did I get that right?

It sounds like the short-term use of a pessary has worked but there are side effects. You are now considering surgery sooner rather than later.

You will notice that I moved your question to an existing discussion on Bladder Prolapse Surgery in the Kidney and Bladder group. Members like @contentandwell @baxtersmom @gardeningjunkie @hotfooted have experience with this topic and may be a good resource for you. I also encourage you to scroll back through the comments to find previously shared suggestions.

You mentioned that surgical mesh is now banned, what kinds of other surgeries have you looked into?