Hell,

Thanks for your reply, and I actually am speaking to a therapist! It
does help, I appreciate the advice. As far as my son,
He doesn't exactly push back, I mean he has a baby daughter so regardless
what he may or may not 'want' to do.....
he has to more than just himself to think about. Seems more like when the
doctors offer no solid answers he feels helpless
because he has no control. By him dictating whether or not to take the
pills - he feels like he still has some say so- if that makes any sense.
Plus our relationship has been strained at times, so if it's a stressful
situation, it can be hard for us to manage.
At the same time Im the only one he will listen to and the only one who can
calm him down enough to actually listen.
He also really prefers me to advocate for him with doctors, EMT, ect.
I really feel like my hands are tied .... I have to be careful how I deal
with this but seem to be the only person who can.

I thank you for your time and input, its nice to be able to share thoughts
with folks who are familiar! Stay Well