@merpreb, I cannot speak for @ginger, but soft, flannel like materials are soothing to my skin. Almost like a hug. And you've undoubtedly heard about Dr. Temple Grandin, who so wonderfully brought about her theories of firm pressure being necessary for calming us Autues down. (And cattle, too...dont forget the cows!)

From there, we have the weighted blankets and the soft, stretchy lengths of silicone material that Autistic children soothe themselves with in their classrooms. (If it is on their IEP's to do so, that is. ) Swings attached to the ceiling, are helpful to give the children that wonderful rocking motion. Rocking chairs and regular swings should be available to every child on the Spectrum.

Children on the Spectrum should routinely be allowed the "chewy" necklaces, bracelets, and pencils that are specially made just for the purpose of stimming. There are even special brushes made to brush the childs arms, usually done with an OT or in the Special Ed Teacher's room. This releases the pent up energy that builds up because the child is struggling to survive in a Neurotypical setting. With proper supports, these children cannot only survive, they will thrive.

More later.....
Mamacita Jane