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Hearing Loss | Last Active: Jul 22, 2023 | Replies (159)

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@bookysue Thanks for the reminder, I will check into that when we are able to come out of isolation.

@julie04 Sometimes when we go out to dinner with the couple we most often do that with, I forget my Connect Clip. The other husband has a booming voice and if the other wife and I are trying to talk it is impossible for me. That can be true even when I have remembered to bring my Connect Clip.
As I have mentioned, they are very supportive and understanding, but not everyone is. My sister feels terrible about my hearing loss but at one point when she and I were in the back seat of the car I asked her to wear the Connect Clip. She didn't want to!
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We are very good friends with a couple we enjoy going out with. However, the lady of the couple is a constant talker. It always seems to start off with a group discussion that gets interrupted when she wants to interject something. The men keep talking and she continues to elaborate on her point of view. It's so expected that it's almost comical. What's really hard for me is that she can talk to me and listen to the other conversation and interject in that too. My head feels like it needs to be on a swivel to keep up with it all. I do remind her/them that this is extremely stressful for me, along with being exhausting. Can we please just have one conversation?? Thankfully, we are good friends and they 'hear me', but it doesn't stop it from happening. Tuning out always feels unfriendly and disrespectful, but sometimes I cannot help it. I always use my accessory microphone, which works well for the most part, but this kind of situation is a big challenge. Just saying. 🙂 Anyone who has hearing loss will understand this, but others don't. It helps to talk about it. That's what we learn from others who get it, and why I've always loved SHHH/HLAA.