Hey so following up with this convo (sorry I was on vacation the past two weeks), to those who did go to a therapist, HOW did you find it helpful? Like @loren12 you mentioned "the therapist I did find has helped me in ways I didn’t even know I needed" - like in what ways were they helpful?

@paddingtonk, you stated "I can let him know how I feel like I am a failure because it’s my body that is letting us down". I can 100% relate to you. In fact, I basically said this thing to my husband last night regarding my failed body image. I think we are in the same boat. It is hard not to get angry at God or even myself and my body.

@minnesotamrsa , To answer your question, I don't go to therapy but I am wondering if I should. I am starting to begin the process of thinking of myself as a barren women who can't have kids. And that sentence alone is quite difficult for me to type, even more difficult to internalize and begin to accept. I guess, I just don't know how this process should look. Or in the bigger picture - how a person going through infertility should look. I get that everyone is different and unique, but I need more of a framework, a template so to say, for how to cope and how to handle all of this. Or I should say handle this better... or if how I am handling it now is enough.