I am so glad you are in a position to understand your son's needs and how to achieve them. I hope he is willing to cooperate with your concerns for his health and accept some help with his care. I am not angry with doctors, but regret terribly that I could never get past my husband's stubbornness and refusal to cooperate in getting the necessary treatment he needed. I now realize that I lived with it for 50 years and recognized that he had dementia for at least fifteen years and nearly lost the family business before his death. We are financially recovered now but I managed to stick to my marriage vows and not leave an impossible situation even though professional counselors advised I do so. I don't blame the doctor for his comment. My son finally admitted his father wrote on his admittance paper that he was married but living separately, which was a lie. Long story. I am hoping for the best for you. Dorisena