Hi! I'll tell you one thing I did with my mom. You can go to Amazon online and buy a zillion cloth napkins. Very inexpensive! Tell her that you need them folded. Doesn't even matter how she folds them, just tell her that she is so helpful!!! Put her at a table or tv tray, coffee table, whatever and put the stack in front of her. Let me know if that works! Virginia Naeve (www.anewpathformom.com).