Hello and so good to hear from you. Been thinking about you as I have not seen you post in a while. Sorry about the LDN. As @artscaping so gently reminds me (and she is absolutely correct), there are no take it all away answers. Once I began to understand that reality, acceptance came my way...sort of. I can not tell a lie...I have my days, and yesterday was one of them! My poor husband. It does break my heart (and I'll get mad about it for you) that once people survive cancer, surgeries, etc...this misery awaits them. Indeed - not fair. But if we sit around playing woe is me, life continues on without us. Damn it All! Such a catch 22. I wish you peace and clarity today. Be well.
Rachel