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Not even ask how are you doing, thats great. Sometimes happen distant family members are afraid of medical centers ambiance and prefer not to be incumbents of your well bring. So asking "how are you doing" magical question is too much when other people hopefully are living their non-concern about health issues lifes.
This is so very true. I was diagnosed with oral cancer 10/2020. Three operations so far. When I first found out I cried. My dr. was kind, said "I know this is devastating". But now I feel he doesn't see the emotional side. The worry & fear. I had a lot of anxiety before the first surgery and after talking about it a few times he said I should speak to a therapist. I was doing that already. I thought I could tell him how nervous I was; I wanted empathy. Just to let me know he understands. Even a pat on the arm and saying I'm going to do everything I can. That would make a big difference. I know he is doing everything he can; but hearing the words can make a difference when you're so frightened.