Good morning @susan2018 . This year sounds like it has been hard for both of you. This month would be a good time to rest and get your strength back up (both of you). It would also be good to look into diet and exercise in case your husband needs chemo. See if you can get an appointment with a dietician at the local hospital. Exercise is also very important—taking walks,etc. You might look into resources in your community—someone who can help with rides to chemo, grocery shopping, etc. Do you have children? Neighbors? Friends? Enlist their help so you’ll be able to get out of the house occasionally. You’ll want to do everything yourself, but it’s not a good idea. YOU have to stay healthy so you can help him. And keep in touch with us! We care