@darlingtondoll, I have read every word of your post and even caught those feelings that creep in and make a strong statement.
I just completed my first travel adventure with medications, injections, incontinence supplies, foods, beverages, appropriate shoes, and clothing. My first flight took me to Austin, Texas to spend a week with my adorable grandchildren, Jay Paul and Amelia Marie. I made it even though the security lady still had to check out the pocket area around my crotch even after I told her I didn't have any pockets. I kept my cool.
My life partner carried a lot of items for me and made sure I was comfortable and not being harassed or yelled at. So...if you want your best chance at not having to be wanded and searched, then no zippers, no metal of any kind, no wide-leg pants, no body lotions or powders and nothing from the TSA no-can-do list for medications. Don't forget...no ice or water/liquids until you are seated on the plane.
Have you looked at adventures that include accommodations for seniors with mobility issues or disabilities? Are there caregivers who could help you? Is there funding available for that kind of service?
I have not wanted to risk a cruise either.....especially when I am not able to take care of myself totally. If you do decide to cruise, be sure you work with the special needs staff on board. They will help you get through security on and off the ship. I also think they will do everything they can to prepare your special menu and support your mobility.
So was it worth it...? Oh yes, it was. The two images with this post will tell you that....I was just as happy as a lark. So what else will you need? You will need rest. I couldn't believe how fatigued I became and how many naps I took. Without enough rest, the pain associated with this endeavor starts to build up.
You are right next to amazing. Chris
Oooo...you stole my heart with this one Chris!