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@ayeshasharma I retired from the court system, and worked in the courtroom. I sat down with my judge and had a very sincere conversation with him. As you know, it can be so intimidating in the courtroom, especially during name/gender change proceedings. We decided that for ease of the person, we heard the cases as last on the calendar, so there was privacy. I checked people in as they appeared, and always quietly asked for the preferred pronoun and how they wanted to be addressed. After the proceeding I was proud to be the first person to call them "officially/legally" by new name/pronoun/gender, and would tell them that. It was heartfelt and the gratitude was evident; my heart broke when I saw them smirked at by others in the court system. I have two close friends who are trans, and it just never occurred to me to not treat them any different.
Ginger