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@colleenyoung

@ihtak46 you're not losing your mind. You are grieving. It takes time. It's a process. You ask if there is something online you can connect with. I say that you are by connecting with us here on Mayo Clinic Connect. I hope in some small way, we can be a support system for you and offer a virtual ear and shoulder when you need it. I'd like to introduce you to @harriethodgson1 who knows exactly what you're going through.

kathi, It sounds like you might want more in addition to the support you are getting on Connect. I invite you to explore books and articles about loss and grief, including some that Harriet has written. http://www.harriethodgson.com/about

You might also appreciate these articles to help understand what is going on
- Grief Work http://www.virtualhospice.ca/en_US/Main+Site+Navigation/Home/Topics/Topics/Emotional+Health/Grief+Work.aspx
- Grief in Times of Celebration: The Empty Spot http://www.virtualhospice.ca/en_US/Main+Site+Navigation/Home/Topics/Topics/Emotional+Health/Grief+in+Times+of+Celebration_+The+Empty+Spot.aspx

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Hi Colleen,
Thank you for writing. I appreciate it. I did look up Harriett Hodgson’s articles. She sure has written quite a bit.
I hope I dont sound brainless but I am having trouble connecting with others. Do I click on Grief and Loss to find people who may have written me?
Thank you.
Kathi