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@nancyrc Some people, myself included, like routine. Spontaneity may not be comfortable for you. The idea of traveling is appealing in the big picture, and perhaps you didn't realize how it would affect you emotionally. There is definitely something to be said for the familiar, the patterns of life. Honestly, perhaps you can see about working on it in your mind, and see if the pull of new places is worth the trepidation you feel. If you decide it is not, it won't be because you didn't try. A friend of mine did what you described, and it took her a year to relax; now she loves being on the road. Please let us know how it goes for you.
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@nancyrc- Sorry to hear about your dilemma! That does sound wonderful, but I can understand. I've dealt with anxiety issues for many years and have been on 1 mg. of Clonazepam for most of those years which has helped me immensely!
I find that whenever we leave home even for a welcomed vacation or even a holiday visit as we are on now to see our kids/grandkids, that I'm always a bit uneasy or worse. Being home I find is always settling for me. I have my routines and even though I really enjoy seeing are kids it is clearly not the same.
I hope you are able to find just the right medium and scrip that you tolerate well and enjoy the many beautiful sites we have hear in the good ole USA. Jim @thankful