Good Morning - I know my husband calls me a nag and as a woman with so many experiences - I do tend to point out my observations. Since I walk the same path as you all do, I see this all from many angles, but mostly from my own speed bumps. I do like to complain a lot too and my caregivers, physicians and family hear it but I also turn around and do something about it. I may be retired from wearing too many hats as a 'superwoman', I wanted to know as much as I could about those things that were and are effecting me, and where my position is in the grand theme of things. I only reflect on issues that are specific to what I know. I can not comment on anything else, other than to encourage others to speak up and step in for yourselves because no one else will. Where I am right now is because I decided to step out of my comfort zone and do and say things that are on my mind. I am my maternal grandmother who lived through the 1918 flu epidemic and knew a thing or two. I can't change that but I am feeling better than I was years ago.