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Breast Cancer | Last Active: Jul 12, 2019 | Replies (61)Comment receiving replies
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Get a second opinion. Be obnoxious if necessary until all your questions are answered.! It’s YOUR LIFE we’re talking about.
@kathysway
Firstly, congratulations on being proactive! If you have any doubts about your doctor's recommendation, then call another oncologist (outside of that doctor's network) and request a second opinion. Usually, you can get that visit within just a few days. (Bring all your test results with you.) If you are able, walk in to set the appointment rather than call. Frankly, it would be wonderful if you didn't need chemo! And, don't forget: the chemo decision is not just based on your onco score -- rather, it's a combination of numerous factors including lesion grade, ER status, age, and such, and, in borderline cases, is based on a best assessment/experience.
Even in best case scenarios, nothing about cancer is exact science (or it would have been easily cured decades ago).
If you still are unsure about a recommended treatment plan, you have the option to request a third opinion, and even make your own decision. You have more control than you are giving yourself credit for. In the meantime, I'm sending you my best wishes and a big thumbs up!