Even though getting this news is devastating, and there are hard days ahead, there are also brighter days ahead. You will have a lot of support at the Gift of Life house (transplant house) from others going through the same thing. I don't believe you qualify for the Hope Lodge. We have stayed at both places, and both are great, simply because you have the support from others going through it. We were given a lot of information, and CD's to watch. Please remember that everyone is different, and your son being young has a lot going for him.