First of all, I'd like to say that Melody's post was not written by a 13 year old. The mature language, organization of thoughts and clarity in her writing is not that of a child. Perhaps the mother is writing this and posing as her daughter in the hopes that people will be more inclined to offer suggestions.
A letter to Dr. Phil asking to be on his show may be an idea. Otherwise, how about the PNP Centre where Dr. Phil sends people with brain/behaviour issues to do a complete neurological work up? Good luck!