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My dad has a mass on bladder and kidney not functioning

Bladder Cancer | Last Active: Dec 21, 2022 | Replies (260)

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And how about you @formydad ? Are you doing OK? I know it’s been a really rough year for you and your parents. You seem to have kept a pretty positive mood throughout; I really admire you. And your husband is doing ok? With his mother’s death and supporting you, I know it’s been difficult for him also. I’m sending a double cyber hug for both. We, at Connect, are thinking of of you and hoping all goes smoothly.

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Yes We are doing Good my husband and I. Healthy and grateful for it currently! Yes a lot certainly went on this past year but I also feel like you grow through trials and learn much if your paying attention :).
Mothers day is coming up and I was thinking of asking Him if he wanted to go to one of his moms favorite restraunts for lunch since he is working from home that is if they are reopened by then. If not maybe take out And share with my mom picnic style. - I’m really thinking about my dad his leg is so swollen. He is hoping the keytruda helps lessen the swelling one of the docs said it may help. It looks painful so swollen ☹️I saw him today. We are looking into compression socks and he elevates them he try’s to walk around the house some but it hurts..I wish i could make it all go away! Its hard to watch him go through this for anyone for that matter for mom too she feels helpless and its hard cause shes itching to get out and dad doesn't feel like doing anything. Im taking her to get her hair done next week salon is open! Ill be in car waiting cause its one client at a time 😉 and Ill take her to get some flowers for home.. n eat lunch maybe in car...
Dad sleeps a lot maybe its because he is on fentynal patch and has low dose oxy if needed. So he must really be in pain i guess.
But he presses on. Im Glad for that! And thankful for you all and the advice given! I pass on every bit! ❤️