Have your dad record his visit with his doctor if you cannot be there. Do you have patient portal access to your dad’s doctor? My son a d daughter-in-law have access to my doctors.
Sometimes there is just so much information and it can be overwhelming. My kids will go over the doctors’s notes and then we discuss it. There are times when I missed something the doctor said.
Ask your dad to add you to his charts for sharing i information with you.