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formydad (@formydad)

My dad has a mass on bladder and kidney not functioning

Cancer | Last Active: Sep 19, 2020 | Replies (258)

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@formydad

Lol – i’ll clean her house for her-
She would never be able to let someone else do it too picky about that for sure 🙂 shes trained me well!
Im gonna head there for that the end of the week 🙂 she is sore and currently sitting in another er with dad tonight- in pain with no meds and her phones dying- 🥺 mom said stay put ill call u with more tomorrow.. mom says shes not letting them send him home in pain like he is in -they did an mri saw where his bladder was theres fluid filling it tht where the pain is-waiting in urologist to decide what next- she said he’ll either be here or shipped to barnes… so guess ill find out more in the am.. my aunt n uncle are also on call with mom- and they can get there faster than me im about an hour from them.. ill keep ya updated. Poor mom no meds and shes hurting 🙁 dads hurting too -pray

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@formydad I hope when you read this, that both your mom and dad have been offered some relief from their issues! It's such a difficult place to be, as a child you look to them to caretake you and now the role is reversed! What type fluid was determined to be in your dad's abdomen? Holding you all close in prayer.
Ginger

I am so sorry to hear this @formydad. Was your mom ever given anything for pain? You might call her doctor to ask for something. As for your dad, I’m just feeling helpless and sad. I’m so glad your mother got him to the ER where he/they can get help. And you’re going to be there! Your presence will make such a difference. It’s very difficult, though, to see frail, elderly parents who were once such strong, energetic persons, isn’t it?
But, how about you? You’ve taken on such a huge, but important, task. How are you taking care of yourself?