I come here for my support - and i trust God. mom n i talk - dad too when he feels like it- i text him a lot especially on treatment days to let him know im thinking about him- i visit but hes sleeping a lot- i just sometimes wonder if he will go through with it or just take his chances without the surgery. I dont really know what he’ll do im sure its crossed his mind. Time will tell and soon will be water under the bridge. I know he’s not the only one been or going through it and thats comforting. I send him all the advice and info i get and try to be wncouraging as i can 🙂