Yeah it has been a whirlwind and now he faces the worst case senario - and an awful surgery he only has one kidney now its really scary-i know hes not the only one whos been through this or is going through this but it is a shock- he feels ok physically but hes just shocked as a man hes thinking about everything.
Worst case down- he asked the urologist what happens if i do all this and i still get cancer whats the prognosis of it all he said again 2-4 yrs?! Doesnt give him much hope.. i told my mom to encourage him not to sit at home to try to get out as much as possible so not to get depressed.