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My dad has a mass on bladder and kidney not functioning

Bladder Cancer | Last Active: Dec 21, 2022 | Replies (260)

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@gingerw

@formydad Gently stress to your dad how important it is to understand what doctor is saying. To that end, having someone with him who will act as a "second set or ears and eyes" can help immensely. Take notes, don't be afraid to ask for clarification or more information. I have found when we are used to talking about a subject, sometimes we assume the listener understands more than they do, or we use terms familiar to us but not to the listener. An example of that, I am a crafter, and forget a listener doesn't know what I am talking about. I don't "dumb it down", just explain it in layman terms. Hope this helps,
Ginger

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Well my dad called the doctor back after writing down some questions doc of course happened to call and woke my dad out of a sleep - so he asked a few questions his bladder cancer is a 2possibly 3 and its high grade- fast growth- he has to go back in to weeks and get his bladder scraped again... after that is supposed to know where to go from there either chemo / or removal? - my dad said he would be getting a second opinion if it came to removal... i feel helpless