@joangela I have had the same problem with my family for 18 years. I used to be the one making accommodations and adjusting my life to make it easier for them, but realized it was wearing me out and causing me all types of anxiety. So I found some lists of things that hearing people can do to include HOH people in their conversations. HLAA has it on their site but there is a separate discussion chain on this Mayo Clinic site started by @editored on March 7. Take a look at his lists. Good luck.