I hope you are still out there and see this message. I am 48 and have these same issues too! It’s a weird thing bc I had a hysterectomy in 2020 (had 5 healthy children from 25-34) but my periods got really heavy and bad. I never had those issues. I also always had migraines since childhood but they had worsened, my vision seemed like everything had a shadow… like doubled, just not completely doubled. Ophthalmologist sold me expensive trifocals. What sent me to really ask for help though was the mental/mood aspects. I don’t know if it was the onset of menopause at the same time or just afterward, but I was so depressed! I also old have these feelings of rage that would wash over me. (I am not an angry person!) I broke down to my gynecologist and told her I was losing my mind… to please test me for anything she could think of that would help me. The prolactin level came back high, I started medicine and it has been a lonely up and down road. I just had to double my meds to keep my prolactin level lower. I’m having increased headaches again too. To make matters worse, my husband was angry with me at first because I just wasn’t myself, but now he’s just become indifferent about it. I’m not acting or feeling or being this way because I want to, I hate it too. One minute I’m crying and the next I am angry. Three of my kids are still here at home in high school and they think I’m a crazy person too. I just feel so alone because nobody understands. They just smile and sorta go on about their day…
Unless you have a visible illness, this world is so cruel. I can understand the world not being tuned in to every person and their problems but your family? They just seem bothered that I’m being a problem because I’m not sick.

You probably should have bioidentical hormone therapy after the hysterectomy. This is for your brain, heart and bone health.