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@dorisena

Thanks, Carol. I have been treating myself with the diabetes for 12 years and have seen endocrinologist until now and she referred back to my primary doctor because my AIC is below 7.0 I have studied much and know I want it lower because I was at 6.2 a few years ago and since I am a nutrition nut and raise a garden I continue to work on it. I watched my husband die from not following doctor's instructions and eating like a pig even though I cooked well and quit baking. He ate elsewhere and the marriage really disintegrated so I am motivated but have a social problem at church. The folks there do not eat properly and reject my efforts, and we have food after church every Sunday. I quit going to church this winter because I don't think I am in the right place in my life when I get no respect or encouragement for my lifestyle. My doctor gives me no help at all because he is satisfied with an AIC 0f 6.8. I can't exercise much because of back surgery but I am doing quite well with that, even with two knee replacements. So I need a friend who thinks on my level.

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@dorisena I was diagnosed with diabetes 2 less than three years ago, so I have not been dealing with this disease as long as you have. It seems that you are doing all the right things by eating healthy and exercising as you can. I know that really matters with diabetes from research, Mayo Connect, and my endocrinologist. The A1C is a debatable number, depending on who is reading it. The American Diabetes Assn. says 7.0 is diabetic; the American Society of Endocrinologists say 6.0 is diabetic, so even the two groups do not agree. Since I go to an endocrinologist, I try to keep my A1C 6.0 or lower. I do not take medicines. I try to eat healthy and exercise as you do and for the time since I was diagnosed, I have held meds at bay. I asked if diabetes can be reversed and have found that it cannot, regardless of the ads. Pre-diabetes can be lowered so that it's not full blown, but when diabetes is in the mix--pre or full blown---there is always a chance that it will get worse if not strictly held in check. I am sorry your husband was not supportive, but some people cannot deal with illness. I also am sorry your church was sot supportive either. I have found that often when someone is ill and cannot be a part of the group, that they are not welcome to try to change everyone else. I'm not sure I think on your level, but I do know what has happened concerning diabetes 2 from my experience. Since you have had the disease much longer than I have, you probably already know what you need to know. Is there something particular you would like to ask? I will be happy to try to answer any particular questions you have.
Carol