@judysmayo
Hi,
I have 2 aids and can get by fine with using just one in my good ear. However, wearing 2 does not help too much in determining the source of the sound. I hear it but not always sure where it is coming from. This is true mainly outdoors. You get use to familiar daily sounds but an unexpected noise can leave you guessing... not only where it is coming from but what the heck is it. My loss is profound and I have been a hearing aid user for 40 years. Like you, I rely on visual cues...it’s second nature to most of us. We’re always watching and on the alert which is why we’re so tired at the end of the day.
I can understand why single sided deafness can be a challenge. Any amplification in that ear however small would be a blessing. Others here will know more about qualifying for a CI or how the BiCros hearing aid works and if there are other options to explore for you.

Regards from FL Mary