That is exactly what I try to do. I am blessed with a family that is quite supportive, but I also have a strong faith in God. While I am not a church goer, I have always had my conversations with him. During my second chemo round whereupon I was quite frightened from the outcome, I woke up in the middle of the night hearing a voice telling me "I will be with you constantly." On my third round I woke up in the middle of the night hearing "Have patience." Since that time, I have been calm and when I am in doubt, I tell my self, I will be with you constantly and have patience. I am also starting a Mindfulness Meditation practice that will be 8 weeks and am finding that that is also quite calming as well as walking in my neighborhood -- am having a bit of trouble with my balance so take my trusty hiking sticks to keep me upright! All the best to all of you in this group -- take one day at a time and look forward, not backward.