Welcome to Connect, @buzzmccracken You sure do have an unusual problem! I have never heard of such a thing. I doubt there are many audiologists who are practiced in such a unique problem, unless your hearing aids can be adjusted to a different setting. I hope you can find an audiologist who can help you, it sounds as if music is very important to you. I wish I could help more, but as I said, the only thing I can think of is a different setting on your HAs since obviously your hearing cannot be changed. You might want to see if there is a specific brand of hearing aids that is favored by people in the music industry.
JK