First, so sorry to hear about the mets. I too had lobular cancer but so far am lucky and no spread (3 years now, caught at an early stage for me). I am very, very Type A and so I did and continue to do lots of reading and research. One of the first places they mention that lobular might spread is the stomach. Like ductal breast cancer it can spread to the bones, etc but lobular seems to like our stomach. If I see anything of interest that might help you I will certainly pass it along (I run across some interesting studies and such now and then). In the meantime, big, big hugs and good wishes. I'm so very sorry you're going through this. You're not alone....you have another lobular gal in your corner.