@windwalker Hi Terri - So glad you were able to take a short pause in your refurb to relax with family. I couldn't have done it without my husband and daughter, because by the time our guests left each time (3 gatherings in 5 days!) I was completely worn out. I have also learned to simplify - gone are the days of many, many dishes and decorations. We had a simple buffet, my sister brought part of the food, and a few cookies. But yesterday was awesome - my niece and nephew came with their small children, so my grandsons had playmates - but what chaos with 5 under the age of 5 for several hours. And my kids and their cousins had a blast recalling their childhood antics - so much laughter. Thank goodness all of these parents believe in early bedtime for their children, so we had no hysterical overly tired melt-downs. We are blessed.